What kind of reality only happens in the movies?

Quora:

9. Conversation between husband and wife comprise of either sentences that declare their  love each other, their hate for each other, how they love some other person, or  focuses on a recent, specific issue of concern about the kid.  Couples are rarely seen to  discuss mortgage payments, what to gift the relative/friend in the wedding that’s next week/month, or anything on the household chores, pets, colleagues, or have any talk about not doing things in particular that bothers your partner.

10. Candles and Petals: A movie character’s partner is often seen to arrange a romantic night for the said character, with hundreds of candles on the floor and elsewhere. Cleaning up the mess later or having the hardwood floor spoiled is not seen to be anybody’s concern.